Becoming a trucker with a family

Discussion in 'Questions From New Drivers' started by brian090, Dec 18, 2016.

  1. brian090

    brian090 Bobtail Member

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    Hello everyone,

    Well as the topic says, I'm en route to earning my CDL-A license. I've worked in the warehouse industry for over 5 years loading the trailers some of you guys haul and my body has already taken a toll (only 26 years old). And while hard work is hard work, I wanted to get a valuable skill other than "I lift things up I put them down".

    So I enrolled in a local CDL school, tomorrow begins my first week which is attaining my CDL-A Permit, followed by 3 weeks of in-vehicle training to advance to my CDL license. I've been following this forum for a few weeks now and while I'm sure I could get all the information I'm asking here on this thread, I wanted to personally introduce myself and get answers.

    OTR, Regional, Local/Dedicated
    My friends and family are all split when it comes to advice on this. I have a wife and three very small children (5, 4, and 2) so I'm already hearing that OTR is a bad bad decision, and I understand the reasons behind that (no home time, or lack of, putting extra pressure on the wife and ensuring physiological damage to my kids (this was actually said to me by a family member) and that OTR pays ####. Others, including my wife are suggesting I stick out OTR for a year, get the experience of driving in different terrain, traffic, roadways, etc.. ensure me a greater potential of getting a local job vs jumping into something local, finding out it's an awful company and not have experience for a good local company that I cross paths with (I hear many overlook dedicated/local miles as "experience"

    My wife assures me she can handle it all, and that it's a good time now because yes the kids will always need their father around but they are young enough to where I don't miss a whole lot if I decide to OTR for a year.

    I'm leaning with my wife on this. But again, I'm really unsure.. my CDL school pushes real hard for OTR and everyone is telling me different things and at the end of the day it's my family that makes the choice, my wife and I who choose to make the sacrifice. We are an awesome team and have a great amount of trust, and my wife can literally handle it all.. I trust her in that.. I've even given her 100's of scenarios in which I can't just leave work to be there for her and she gets it, she understands it.

    If I decide to go OTR, I also need some reputable companies to look into.. companies that allow a dog (30 pound beagle mix, my co pilot) is basically my main requirement. I live in Upstate NY about an hour east of Syracuse, if that matters.

    Apologize for the lengthy post, a lot of excitement/nervousness going around right now!

    Thank you all
    Brian
     
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  3. Chinatown

    Chinatown Road Train Member

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    Some new cdl grad in your area was hired by a tanker outfit and home pretty often, Don't remember the name of the company though since that was a few months ago. There's good money in tankers, so look around your area and apply, even if the website has "experience required."
    Be sure to get the tanker/hazmat endorsements even if you don't think you need it right now. This way you're prepared when that cushy job pops up.
    Old Dominion Freight Line hires new cdl grads. You can go right into linehaul, which is drop & hook. They've been recruiting all over PA cdl schools for new grads so probably need them all over.
     
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  4. street beater

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    You can go local or regional right out of the gate. All sectors of trucking have different skill sets and demands on your body/personal life/nerves. Do whats best for you. Regional line haul gives the best pay vs home time but is 95 percent night running. Local is usually home daily or ever other. Pays less on average. Otr... well its otr.
     
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  5. street beater

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    Aside from the basic stuff, few things to keep in mind, 1. Try to stay with your first employer for at least a year. And 2. Protect your cdl/record. Your mvr is your lifeblood. Dont drive dirty, illegal, or dangerous. Dont let anyone force you to do so. The blame lies with you when you take out a truck that is not road worthy. Ect...
     
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  6. ExOTR

    ExOTR Windshield Chipper Extraordinaire

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    I know you're tired of throwing boxes, but foodservice often pays quite well, home a few nights a week, normally only a 4.5-5 day workweek.
    I enjoyed OTR, and still miss it, but I don't recommend transferring into the lifestyle with your family already established. Save OTR for when your kiddos are older , out of the house, or off to college.
    You don't get back days that you've lost, missing plays at school, being there to tuck in your kiddo and just chat for a few minutes every night, etc.
    At least with regional you'll still make good money in your area, and will be home weekends, and less than a day away if you ever have a family emergency at home.
     
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  7. x1Heavy

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    Wife might be strong now to take care of three roaming kids. Give it 6 weeks and you are 2000 miles from home trying to patch your marriage together when she has had enough over the phone.

    You will be a force to be reckoned with around warehouses, that should be good for something. But the other side is now you will find that your delivery appt will be set and you gotta be on time. Then sit around for hours waiting for a dock as if they could care less.

    Experience? Ha. A monkey or Otto Robot can drive. It's the Human that keeps those trucks from killing people or allowing stupid darwin people from killing themselves under your wheels.

    I don't have much to type tonight, These are the very best years your kids will ever have with you and if you would throw it away roaming the USA... then your children will become strangers.
     
  8. brian090

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    Chinatown, I actually have a cousin who works for Old Dominion, haven't even told him I as getting my CDL yet but I know he was OTR for several years so I assumed it was an 'experience only' gig. But that's awesome to know, thank you for the quick reply. My school basically says that OTR is almost a requirement for a good job with good hometime, and if that's the case I'm okay with it.. but I'm starting to hear that this is untrue.

    street beater, thanks for the tips.. I have to take good care of my license after this, as I know that it will affect everything from this point forward!
     
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  9. street beater

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    You definitely dont need otr experience to go local. There is a higher demand for otr drivers, so that's what they push. Getting local may require a trade off to start, either pay or schedule, but the 2 are different animals. Some people can do both, most people excel in one or the other. When going for local, with low experience, your selling your drive and ambition. Not your experience.
     
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  10. brian090

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    Thank you for the sugar free reply! I hear you, 100%. I'm not trying to jump on a truck and leave my family behind, I'm just trying to go about this the right way to succeed as a driver so I can be home with my family as much as possible.
     
  11. ExOTR

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    You can start "regional", and still be home most weekends for 36-48hrs. Better than wasting your time resetting out on the road away from family.
    You actually might be able to go local "out of the box" with your current warehouse background. Quite a few companies look for driver/warehouse combo drivers. You would make more than a regular warehouse guy, and would also get to break up the monotony doing deliveries.
     
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